My friend who has cancer has found out today that it’s not life threatening. It’s incurable, so she will have to live with it for the rest of her life and learn how to manage it when she’s in and out of remission, but it’s not life threatening! Happy! Better than “Can be cured, but more likely to die soon.” (I think.)
We all have our own challenges and walls to climb, which can feel insurmountable to each of us… but I found out today that a good friend of mine has cancer… somehow, makes most of my problems seem a little less significant. She’s so optimistic and positive it makes my heart ache for a good outcome for her and her two boys. I need a hug.
I have friends but I've realized that I am none of their best friends. When I realized this about my oldest friend, I was inclined to feel hurt, but I wasn't - just cause we've been friends FOREVER doesn't make us best friends - we have different interests, her best friend shares more of her interests.
When I think of all my friends and contemplate each of their circles of friends, there is not one I want to become a bigger part of, no acquaintances that make me think, "I should get to know her/him better."
So how, as an adult, with a busy work and family life and many solitary interests, do I make new friends???